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Renewing your Vows – A guide to making it perfect

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Mignon McLaughlin said, “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”

Is there a better way to fall in love all over again, than by renewing your vows and saying “I still do”? It gives you an opportunity to celebrate your love and togetherness in the best way you can imagine.

The rules of a traditional wedding do not confine you on this occasion. Whether you choose to have an elaborate ceremony, celebrate it at an exotic location abroad, or have a party with just your close family and friends, it is entirely up to you. All that matters is that you enjoy the occasion, and renew your promise of continuing on the journey of life together.

Here are some tips to help you plan and make the most, of this special day in your life.

Traditional or contemporary, choose to have fun

Unlike your wedding day, there are no rules to conducting this ceremony. You can choose to have an officiant to preside over it, or  just be creative and find an interesting alternative.

You could exchange your original vows, or even make up new ones that are more apt in your current situation.

Discuss how you would like to celebrate the occasion with your spouse, and plan a ceremony that the two of you would equally enjoy.

Plan the perfect attire

7161There are no rules here. You could always use this opportunity to bring out your wedding gown once again, as long as it fits!

However, wouldn’t it be more fun, to dress up in a dress that’s different from a wedding gown? Think cocktail dresses, evening dresses or even a casual frock for a chic, fun ceremony. Match your attire to the formality of the event. When the bride and the groom complement each other, it is a pleasant sight. This is your chance to look romantic, fashionable and gorgeous, so make the most of it.

Ideas to make it enjoyable

Unless you decide to go all out and have a grand celebration, renewing vows are normally intimate occasions that involve just your close friends and family. Make it more fun by involving them too. Choose an interesting theme and have your children be your bridesmaids and groomsmen. The young children of the family could be flower girls, ushers or accompany the bride down the aisle.

Being married for so long is a real accomplishment, so you can symbolize it by exchanging engraved rings to honor your love. Bring back the memories of your wedding day, by decorating your venue with photographs of your wedding day. Display before and after pictures of yourselves, have a slideshow of the various milestones in your married life and let the guests join you as you remember these fond memories.

This is the day when you are free to enjoy all that you wanted to the first time, but couldn’t. Dance together to favorite tunes, and wiggle to some fun music too. Make the most of this occasion to pause and reflect on what your life together has been all about.

Best for Bride has the perfect choice of dresses that can help you look just as beautiful when you renew your vows, as you did on your wedding day. Visit us online and take a look at what we have to offer.

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How to Have a Surprise Wedding

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Typically, there is quite a bit of planning that goes into a wedding and it can take months to get it just right. It can also be quite stressful, especially when couples are dealing with issues with their family. However, one way to avoid these many stresses is to plan a surprise wedding instead. If this is something that you would like to tackle, here are a few tips to get you started.

Be Secretive

One of the most important things that you can focus on is making sure that you avoid telling as many people about the surprise wedding as possible. While it may be a good idea to fill your parents in on the secret, it is best if you try to keep everyone else out of the loop. You should also make sure that vendors are aware that you are planning a surprise wedding so that someone is not accidentally provided information that can spill the beans.

Getting People to the Event

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This is probably the hardest part of having a surprise wedding. You will still need to send out invitations, but will need to disguise the true reason for the gathering. You may also need to discuss with your fiancé what to do if an important guest informs you that they will not be attending. You may need to let them in on the secret if you cannot convince them otherwise.

When it comes to decorating, you will need to set up so that it is not as obvious that you are having a wedding. Instead of traditional seating, you may find it helpful to sit up picnic tables with an aisle in between instead. You can also consider simply using flowers on the tables that are in season so that you do not give away the idea that you are decorating for a wedding.

Think about the downsides

Keep in mind that there are some downsides to having a surprise wedding. For example, it is less likely that you will receive as many wedding gifts as you would with a traditional wedding. You will also miss out on the events that you would attend, like a bachelorette party or bridal shower before your wedding. These are some things that you should think about carefully before planning a surprise wedding.

Conclusion

A surprise wedding can be something fun and exciting for everyone involved. Not only will it help cut down on some of the drama that goes along with some wedding planning, but you may be able to cut down on costs as well. However, this is something that should be thought through carefully before you decide to go this route. Because of the nature of this type of wedding, you may find that you miss out on some of the other joys of having a traditional wedding.

If you are planning a surprise wedding, there is no other place better to get you started than Best for Bride. They will help you plan a wedding that will have her saying ‘yes’ in a heartbeat.

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How to Choose a Venue for your Wedding

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One of the most important factors to consider when you are planning your wedding is the venue that you will be holding it in. You will find that there are many to choose from in your location and it is one of the first decisions that you should make. It is possible that you select the venue before you select the date of your wedding depending on how popular the venue is.

Below you will find some tips on how to choose your venue as well as the things that you should consider while you are going through the decision making process.

Discuss and Negotiate

The first thing that you should do is to talk it over with your spouse to be. It is a good idea to choose a location that you both will love and can agree on. This is also a great time to begin discussing the number of people who will be invited from both sides of the family as well.

Consider your Budget

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Many popular wedding venues cost quite a bit of money in order to book. This is definitely something that can prevent you from selecting certain venues that fall out of your budget. Before making the final choice as to which venue would work best for your wedding, it is a good idea to know how much money that you have to spend.

The Guests

The size of the venue can also be important. For example, if you choose a small venue that only holds 50 people, but you plan to invite 200, you may have a slight problem. On the flip side, a venue that is meant for thousands of people may be overkill if you will only have a hundred guests or so. Consider the people that you expect to attend and choose a venue that suits that number of guests.

The Date

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As mention above, you may find that it is difficult to book certain venues on the actual date of your wedding. For this reason, it is best to see what your options are for the date of your wedding first. Or, better yet, select the venue first and then decide on the date. If you are a bit flexible on the date that you choose, you may find that you have more options to choose from.

Conclusion

When you are selecting your venue, there are many things that you should consider. It is also a good idea to consider where you plan to have the reception at this time as well. Since many people have the reception at a location separate from the wedding venue, this is something that you may want to think about when planning your wedding.

Best for Bride

Best for Bride is a bridal boutique that can help plan your wedding from start to finish. They offer a wide range of wedding gowns as well as many other things that are necessary for your big day. With their help, you will be able to have the best wedding possible, regardless of the venue that you ultimately choose.

 

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Hire a Food Truck to Cater Your Wedding

If you are looking for a unique way to cater a wedding whether it’s big or small, consider local food trucks. Now you might be thinking why on Earth would someone want to have a food truck cater a wedding, but truth be told, there are all kinds of options when it comes to what selections you can have for both dinner and dessert.

The best thing about food trucks is that they can show up anywhere and begin their usual routine; if you are going for something really unique for your wedding, especially if it is outdoors in the summer, this might be an option for you. It’s not only a way to provide something different for your guests that usually expect either a buffet or plated dinner, but is a great way to support a local company from the town you have grown up in, or one that you are visiting.

A food truck can be considered for any part of the meal, including small appetizers to go with pre-dinner drinks, desserts to compliment the cake cutting or even a midnight snack after everyone has burned off dinner while dancing up a storm. Since food trucks usually focus on only one or a few menu items, it’s generally pretty easy to figure out what kind of company you’ll be looking for.

Due to their very mobile nature, its easy to research and read reviews on your cities favorite food trucks. These are also a fantastic idea for destination weddings because even though the city may not be familiar to you, social media sites will help you easily track down some information on the food truck and what they have to offer. Some food trucks have a wealth of staff that will cater to you and create unique spreads of food; others are run by just one or two people and your guests will have to line up to choose what they want. But who would complain when they can have a unique dining experience offered by someone with a passion for food?