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My Investment

Have you heard about bridal registry? I’ve just heard about it and I was shocked to find out that there was such a thing. It’s actually like you’re demanding that your guests give you a gift. But since everybody’s doing it, I guess it’s okay that I follow suit. Besides, who’s complaining?

To discuss in detail, this system they call bridal registry was actually designed by department stores. Their purpose was to help engaged couples manage the gifts they are to receive at the wedding. How so? The couple checks the items that are available at the department store and uses them as basis for their list. This list consists of the items that they would like to receive from their guests. The couple or the participating stores then distribute the list to the guests.

That’s not the end of it. The department store updates the list whenever an item is purchased. Now this means that you won’t have to receive two same gifts from your guests. Imagine the convenience the system brings. I mean, who needs two oven toasters in one house? I remember my sister’s wedding. She did not receive two, but three oven toasters. I’d say it’s a waste.

And imagine the savings you’ll make if you implement the system. Now your guests can shoulder some of the expenses you are bound to cover with your new home. I just finished making my own list. Now I have my oven toaster, coffee maker, kitchen utensils and many other home amenities covered. That leaves me more money to spend for my wedding.

This is exactly what I need since I am planning to invest on my bridal gown big time. Yes, I call it investment. My wedding dress is not a one-event thing for me. I’m planning to make it last a lifetime. You see, my Mom used my grandma’s wedding gown who used her grandma’s wedding gown who used her grandma’s wedding gown. Too bad this long tradition had to stop at my generation. You see, the vintage gown has finally given up and is now beyond repair.

Anyway, I plan to start my own tradition with my new wedding gown. I haven’t bought it yet though. But I have my eyes set on a Bridal Gowns – MyLady. The collection consists of lovely gowns embellished with splendid Austrian Swarowski and are made from deluxe European fabrics.

I am trying to choose from three exquisite pieces. The first one is Lady Alba. It’s a two-piece bridal gown (bodice and skirt). The top is basic in cut and style yet part see-through. That’s looking bold and decent all at the same time.

Next in line is Lady Alegria. The bodice and skirt are also separate. I love its full skirt and elegant draperies. And what’s great about it is that you get to wear the bodice with plunging cleavage and still manage to look decent.

And the last but definitely not the least (I think I’m going for this one) is the Lady Amaranta. This wedding gown is the perfect embodiment of elegance and splendor. Need I say more?

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Are You Getting Cold Feet?

Are you getting cold feet already? Don’t fret over it. It’s natural for you to experience wedding jitters. Practically everybody who’s about to make that momentous march to the altar goes through the same nerve wrecking apprehension.

I remember my own wedding. I was so nervous that I started to believe that my intuition was screaming at me, telling me that I was making a wrong decision. One day, I just lost it. I went straight to my fiance’s doorstep and told him I was not pushing through with the wedding. Broke his heart on the dot. I still remember his eyes, and the pain that registered as I uttered those silly words.

Naturally, the news found its way to my imposing mother in an instant. And she decided to put the matters into her own hands. In no time, she was at my doorstep with that scrutinizing expression that never fails to get me all cowered.

Then there she was, explaining to me what this so-called ‘wedding jitters’ was all about. And there I was, telling her that I was finally going through as planned. After she left, I could not help but wonder if I changed my mind because I was convinced that I was overreacting or because I was afraid of her.

Right at this moment, I don’t really care. I’m pretty sure I made the right decision. I am now happily married to my husband of eight years and we are now expecting our third baby. This is one reason why I am never bitter with my Mom. She always truly knows what’s best for me.

As for you, don’t go breaking your fiance’s heart because of some stupid wedding jitters. Lest he’ll go and tease you for the next decades. And you’ll never forget how silly and childish you were. You know what’s the best way you can get your mind off your jitters? Attend to your wedding affairs. Be meticulous with every little detail.

Believe me, you’ll never run out of anything to attend to. There’s the flower arrangement, the wedding gifts, the choice of bridesmaids and flower girls, the reception and many others. But don’t get too engrossed with little details that you’ll neglect the important ones. And what’s more important than your bridal gown? Do you have one already. If you don’t, let me give you my recommendation.

Check out Bridal Gowns – Tulipia. They are not your ordinary wedding dresses. I can assure you your guests will always remember how you looked on your wedding day.

Let me give you a run-through of my favorites. First in the list is Tulipia – 5. It’s your usual white bridal gown with a tube top and full skirt. What sets it apart is its drapery at the hips in an eye-catching shade of off-white.

Then there’s Tulipia – 7. I love its white and fluffy skirt. Reminds me of those beautiful winter days I always enjoy spending with my husband. You should look at it yourself.

Finally, on top of my list is Tulipia – 11. What I love about this piece is its exquisite detail that definitely sets it apart from other wedding gowns. Its lustrous fabric is embellished with pink swarowski all in the right places. The result is a dress dazzling in its splendor.

Funny how I still enjoy looking at bridal gowns even when I don’t actually need them anymore. Well, come and join the fun!

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My Mom and My Wedding

I’m getting married! Finally. My mother’s gone ecstatic. She seems to be even more excited than me. She’s got tons of reasons for that. For one, I’m her first born. This is basically the first time she will witness one of her daughters getting married. And she’s not getting any younger. It’s about time somebody gives her a grandchild.

Another good reason why she should be happy about the wedding is because finally I’m settling down. I’m a wild child you see. Remember this song by “Bachelor Girl”?

“So I walked under a bus
I got hit by a train
Keep falling in love
Which is kinda the same
I’ve sunk out at sea
Crashed my car, gone insane
And it felt so good
I want to do it again”

That song is so me. I had a self-destructive youth. Been too free-spirited. So you can imagine everybody’s delight at the idea of this untamed animal taking on something as big as marriage. I found a really decent man too. And yeah, I think I’m a better person now — matured and ready to take life seriously.

But you know the real reason why my Mom’s all excited about the wedding? Why, this is yet another reason for her to dress up and look all dashing. Yeah, that’s my Mom. She’s 53, but she’s never gotten over her youth. It does not help that even at this age she manages to look vibrant and beautiful.

And that’s my Mom, always obsessed over the wrong things. Sometimes I blame her for all the mistakes I made when I was younger. She never tried to bring sense into me. But can I really blame her when she could not get her own life straight? Tsk tsk tsk. Anyway, there’s more to the song.

“Hey Mom
Since we’re talking
What was it like when you were young
Has the world changed
Or is it still the same

A man can kill and still be the sweetest thing.”

That’s my Mom. She could make the worst of mistakes and would still have everybody at her knees. Yeah, everybody loves this beautiful lady. I am one of these people. I’ve always loved her in spite of her mistakes. She’s the type of person you just can’t manage to hate.

And it’s amazing how this lady always manages to steal the moment, to catch all the attention. But why, it’s my wedding yet I have all my attention consumed in shopping for the best “Mother of the Bride” Dress when I am supposed to be fretting over my own Bridal Dress.

Anyway, I found this really impressive collection of Mother of the Bride Gowns – Mori Lee. They are classic and elegant yet youthful and timeless. The collection is perfect for my Mom.

It’s not very easy to choose just one dress though. They’re all really nice. But I have narrowed down my choices to three gowns. The first dress that caught my eye was Bridesmaids Collection: 363 Chiffon, a soft gown in a plain A-line cut and V-neckline. The style is simple yet elegant. What makes it special and fit for my Mom is its strong shade of pink. Not your ordinary baby pink or pastel shades.

Another mother of the bride gown that caught my attention was Ava Collection: 412 Satin. I fell in love with its rich, glossy beige satin. And its princess line cut is perfect for my Mom’s figure.

But I think I’m going for the Bridesmaids Collection: 370 Taffeta. I believe the dress is an embodiment of my own Mom. It’s a figure-hugging kitten-sly type of dress. The kind that screams “naughty girl”. And I love its lustrous silk and crisp texture, something that looks like synthetic leather yet soft and flowing.

But then again, my Mom would still have the final say.